Azubuike Chinenye, a Nigerian Business tycoon , took to her social media page the story of her life.
Chinenye explained that she overcame domestic violence in her marriage and when it ended, her parents took care of her kids and she went back to study.
She explained in her post; She got married in the most sorrowful way anyone could think of.
She ended up managing her situation just to have a happy home.
Her husband whom she met as a “growing man” and gave him her support. She watched him grow from self contain to 1bedroom to 3 bedroom flat and finally to their own duplex.
She watched him grow from a mere boat rider to a captain of a ship.
She watched him grow from leggedy benz to taxi, to Honda Bullet, to Toyota highlander and to Benz C class. She watched her used to be poor husband turn into a multi millionaire.
Unfortunately things went worst. She started enduring domestic violence, abuse, infidelity and maltreatment from her inlaws.
She hid her tribulations from her family cos she didn’t want them worried. She also was scared of the society mocking her for having a failed marriage. She prayed, she fasted, she did vigils, she did the midnight heart to heart talk with her husband just to find out what went wrong but it got worse.
She endured domestic violence both from the beatings with the use of belt to insults and body shaming, use of boiling ring, she even gets woken up at 1am to cook for him, she has slept one day and woke up by the bucket of water poured on her and the worst of it all? She gave birth via CS and was beaten for not taking her sister inlaws calls which resulted to her surgery site tearing open and she went into the theatre for another stitching.
Worst still she experienced a terrible one whichled to coma and that led to the end of the marriage. She had no choice than to run ti her parents house with her three kids.
Her parents took her kids from her and asked her to go finish study.which she did, she went for nysc and started life afresh doing every legit job she could think of just to raise money.
She became so depressed with all she went through that she also transferred the hatred to her kids. After all, her pastor prayed for her , ask her to forgive and sis try to forgive her ex husband and family.
Life started falling into place as she decided to focus on her future and her kid’s future. She was ventured into different businesses and finally became a Caterer and a School Director.
2019, her ex husband family called her for reconciliation but she made them understand that she has forgiven them can’t reconcile with them.
She said,”I am not here to speak ill of my ex husband or his family but to make you understand that marriage didn’t favour me.
“Life has thrown at me the status of single mother which I wear with pride”.
“If I could survive domestic violence and remain this happy, you too can. It’s not easy. I won’t even lie to you, being a single mother doing everything is not easy but the peace of mind and Happiness makes me not to feel anything.
Dear You reading this, anytime you feel like giving up, anytime you go depressed, pls visit my page “”and look at my picture.
“I am not a motivational speaker, I am only here sharing my story and my personal experience hoping that someone out there learns from it.
“I am Azubuike Chinenye a domestic violence survivor and a business mogul.”